(Another one of those emails sent to me that I felt compelled to pass along and because I am a sucker for this stuff check out this link to the You Tube video. Oh and those of you calling out this ’scam’ or ‘hoax’ don’t bother. I don’t care where it started or what it was, what it is now in this format is cool as hell and meaningful in my opinion.)

 

 

RED SHIRT FRIDAY’S

If the Red shirt thing is new to you, read below…

Last week, while traveling to Chicago on business, I noticed a Marine sergeant traveling with a folded flag, but did not put two and two
together.

After we boarded our flight, I turned to the sergeant, who’d been invited to sit in First Class (across from me), and inquired if he was
heading home.

No, he responded.

Heading out I asked?

No. I’m escorting a soldier home.

Going to pick him up?

No. He is with me right now. He was killed in Iraq ; I’m taking him home to his family.

The realization of what he had been asked to do hit me like a punch to the gut. It was an honor for him. He told me that, although he didn’t know the soldier, he had delivered the news of his passing to the soldier’s family and felt as if he knew them after many conversations in so few days.

I turned back to him, extended my hand, and said, Thank you. Thank you for doing what you do so my family and I can do what we do.

Upon landing in Chicago the pilot stopped short of the gate and made the following announcement over the intercom.

“Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to note that we have had the honor of having Sergeant Steeley of the United States Marine Corps join us on this flight. He is escorting a fallen comrade back home to his family. I ask that you please remain in your seats when we open the forward door to allow Sergeant Steeley to deplane and receive his fellow soldier. We will then turn off the seat belt sign.”

Without a sound, all went as requested. I noticed the sergeant saluting the casket as it was brought off the plane, and his action made me realize that I am proud to be an American.

So here’s a public Thank You to our military Men and Women for what you do so we can live the way we do.

Red Fridays. Very soon, you will see a great many people wearing Red every Friday. The reason? Americans who support our troops used to be called the “silent majority.” We are no longer silent, and are voicing our love for God, country and home in record breaking numbers. We are not organized, boisterous or overbearing.

Many Americans, like you, me and all our friends, simply want to recognize that the vast majority of America supports our troops. Our idea of showing solidarity and support for our troops with dignity and respect starts this Friday — and continues each and every Friday until the troops all come home, sending a deafening message that … every red-blooded American who supports our men and women afar, will wear something red.

By word of mouth, press, TV — let’s make the United States on every Friday a sea of red much like a homecoming football game in the bleachers. If every one of us who loves this country will share this with acquaintances, coworkers, friends, and family, it will not be long
before the USA is covered in RED and it will let our troops know the once “silent” majority is on their side more than ever, certainly more
than the media lets on.

The first thing a soldier says when asked “What can we do to make things better for you?” is. “We need your support and your prayers.” Let’s get the word out and lead with class and dignity, by example, and wear something red every Friday.

153 Responses to “I’ll be wearing mine…”

  1. on 17 Dec 2007 at 5:14 pm Ian

    I know the decision of the jersey is left up to the starting pitcher but is this something the Red Sox could do. Wear the red jerseys on Friday’s.

    I’ll be wearing red as well on Fridays from now on.


  2. on 17 Dec 2007 at 5:14 pm philciallela

    The fact you put that on there speaks volumes


  3. on 17 Dec 2007 at 5:28 pm maroddy

    Curt,

    This is something I’ve been doing for several years now. Thanks for spreading the good word!

    Margaret


  4. on 17 Dec 2007 at 5:39 pm pennstater89

    Crying down here in NJ … wow …


  5. on 17 Dec 2007 at 5:52 pm Elvis Elvisberg

    Our idea of showing solidarity and support for our troops with dignity and respect starts this Friday — and continues each and every Friday until the troops all come home, sending a deafening message that … every red-blooded American who supports our men and women afar, will wear something red.

    Umm… is this satire?

    If not, I’m pretty blown away by your willingness to take such a controversial stance. I’ll be eagerly waiting to hear whether you come out for or against puppies and rainbows, and back it up with a similar commitment to wear certain clothing on certain days of the week.


  6. on 17 Dec 2007 at 5:58 pm toofarawayfromboston

    I will wear mine. My nephew is in Fallujah….

    My daughter and I will wear our red, proudly, as we protest the war in Iraq. We may not agree with the reason they are there, but we love and support every single member of our US Armed Forces and are very proud that we have so many who volunteer - and may have to make that ultimate sacrifice.

    For those who have friends and/or family overseas, here is a great site that offers free email turned to mail delivery to our troops: (I’ve snipped the email address as it is so long) http://snipurl.com/1vfo8

    Kyle, if you read this, stay safe, stay alert, and come home safely. Love, Auntie


  7. on 17 Dec 2007 at 6:11 pm top1tony

    I will proudly wear red every friday. My best friend is still in Baghdad. SSGT Paul Bohn. Im so proud and pray for him every day and yes HE is a SOX fan.


  8. on 17 Dec 2007 at 6:17 pm jbran66

    Very fitting that it’s the color red that’s used to signify our support of America. The Nation just keep on growing. I love God, this country and the Boston Red Sox (and in that order :)

    Merry Christmas Curt, Shonda and family…


  9. on 17 Dec 2007 at 6:23 pm pet0606

    Hi Curt;
    Its Nancy from the Arizona ALS golf tournament. Yoou caught my attention with this one and tugged the heart strings. Jeff and I will be honored to follow in suit.
    Nancy


  10. on 17 Dec 2007 at 6:49 pm kossox

    This is a great note Shill, I have a question for you. Do you think it is possible to find the war and our criminal in chief repugnant but still support the troops? I fall in that camp and will proudly wear my red, redsox sweatshirt on Friday.


  11. on 17 Dec 2007 at 6:58 pm boston07

    Thanks for the information! I have two brothers serving in the National Guard. One of them is leaving for Afghanistan in January, for eighteen months. It is really cool that I can show my support so literally.

    I will be wearing RED every Friday.

    Thanks for all the support you give our armed forces. And good luck next year!


  12. on 17 Dec 2007 at 6:59 pm Mark

    Curt. Thank you very much. Anything to support the troops, I am going to support whole-heartedly. Hooah.


  13. on 17 Dec 2007 at 7:03 pm soxygrl

    thank you for noticing curt.


  14. on 17 Dec 2007 at 7:04 pm soxygrl

    I’LL be wearing mine as well


  15. on 17 Dec 2007 at 7:32 pm redsoxfan4ever7

    Curt you are amazing the people you meet and the stories you bring to the table are so great to read I really enjoy the stuff that happens in your life and that you talk about it. People really look up to you, I know I do…..Shane


  16. on 17 Dec 2007 at 7:40 pm spider04

    I was somewhat moved by this post, a mixture of pride and sadness. While I don’t necessarily agree with the war…I do support the men and women fighting it…and I will be wearing my red on Fridays…


  17. on 17 Dec 2007 at 7:52 pm scoop388

    Curt.
    Truly a touching story and I agree that it makes me proud to be an American just hearing about it.


  18. on 17 Dec 2007 at 7:58 pm redsoxrmyheros

    Thank you for this Curt. Our military men and women need all the support that is humanly possible.
    It’s the least we can do after all they do for us. Not only risking their lives every minute that they are away…but for the small things that go unnoticed by the vast majority, such as what you’ve posted here.
    My family and I have a rule that we live by: when any of us are out to dinner or getting coffee or having a drink, and if we see military personnel there also, we always pick up their tab. That is of they allow us to. We’ve had some that have turned down the offer, and their reason? “We don’t do what we do for recognition, we do it because it’s in our blood and we love our country”.
    What more needs to be said as to the integrity of our troops?
    Thanks for another great entry Curt.
    Hope you and yours have a safe and joyous holiday season!!


  19. on 17 Dec 2007 at 8:05 pm texredsoxfan

    thank you for sharing Curt! it’s really nice to have stories like this to keep life in perspective.


  20. on 17 Dec 2007 at 8:24 pm msbay

    Wow. Thank you for sharing that Kurt.

    Not sure if this was your intention, but the news that hit this Tuesday seems kind of ridiculous compared to the reality these soldiers and their families face.

    Believe it or not, there are many of us here in the SF Bay Area that support our troops. My prayers go out to all the families who who have loved ones overseas. Thank you!


  21. on 17 Dec 2007 at 8:42 pm nlt88

    Great topic and story Curt!!! More people need to support our troops and let them know how thankful we are for their sacrafices. You are right in that the media is down-playing the support and despite what is said the “Majority’ does support them. I’m glad I have several red shirts ( all have names and numbers- Kapler, Lowell, Varitek and Schilling!!) in my wardrobe. Keep up the good work!!!


  22. on 17 Dec 2007 at 10:12 pm luvdsox

    Well done Mr. Schilling!
    I wanted to share one with you as well.

    A Different Christmas Poem

    The embers glowed softly, and in their dim light,
    I gazed round the room and I cherished the sight.
    My wife was asleep, her head on my chest,
    My daughter beside me, angelic in rest.

    Outside the snow fell, a blanket of white,
    Transforming the yard to a winter delight.
    The sparkling lights in the tree I believe,
    Completed the magic that was Christmas Eve.

    My eyeli ds were heavy, my breathing was deep,
    Secure and surrounded by love I would sleep.
    In perfect contentment, or so it would seem,
    So I slumbered, perhaps I started to dream.

    The sound wasn’t loud, and it wasn’t too near,
    But I opened my eyes when it tickled my ear.
    Perhaps just a cough, I didn’t quite know,

    Then the sure sound of footsteps outside in the snow.

    My soul gave a tremble, I struggled to hear,
    And I crept to the door just to see who was near.
    Standing out in the cold and the dark of the night,
    A lone figure stood, his face weary and tight.

    A soldier, I puzzled, some twenty years old,
    Perhaps a Marine, huddled here in the cold.
    Alone in the dark, he looked up and smiled,
    Standing watch over me, and my wife and my child.

    “What are you doing?” I asked without fear,
    “Come in this moment, it’s freezing out here!
    Put down your pack, brush the snow from your sleeve,
    You should be at home on a cold Christmas Eve!”

    For barely a moment I saw his eyes shift,
    Away from the cold and the snow blown in drifts..
    To the window that danced with a warm fire’s light
    Then he sighed and he said “Its really all right,

    I’m out here by choice. I’m here every night.”
    “It’s my duty to stand at the front of the line,
    That separates you from the darkest of times.

    No one had to ask or beg or implore me,
    I’m proud to stand here like my fathers before me.
    My Gramps died at Pearl on a day in December,”
    Then he sighed, “That’s a Christmas ‘Gram always remembers.”

    My dad stood his watch in the jungles of ‘ Nam ‘,
    And now it is my turn and so, here I am.
    I’ve not seen my own son in more than a while,
    But my wife sends me pictures, he’s sure got her smile.

    Then he bent and he carefully pulled from his bag,

    The red, white, and blue… an American flag.
    I can live through the cold and the being alone,
    Away from my family, my house and my home.

    I can stand at my post through the rain and the sleet,
    I can sleep in a foxhole with little to eat.
    I can carry the weight of killing another,
    Or lay down my life with my sister and brother..
    Who stand at the front against any and all,
    To ensure for all time that this flag will not fall.”

    “So go back inside,” he said, “harbor no fright,
    Your family is waiting and I’ll be all right.”

    “But isn’t there something I can do, at the least,
    “Give you money,” I asked, “or prepare you a feast?
    It seems all too little for all that you’ve done,
    For being away from your wife and your son.”

    Then his eye welled a tear that held no regret,
    “Just tell us you love us, and never forget.
    To fight for our rights back at home while we’re gone,
    To stand your own watch, no matter how long.

    “For when we come home, either standing or dead,
    To know you remember we fought and we bled.
    Is payment enough, and with that we will trust,
    That we mattered to you as you mattered to us.”


  23. on 17 Dec 2007 at 10:27 pm rdsxfan4life

    Thank you for posting this Curt. I had never heard of “Red Friday’s” before, but what a visible way for us to show support to our troops. God bless those who serve our country and may He bring them back home safely and soon.


  24. on 17 Dec 2007 at 10:40 pm hawk40

    Curt,
    I support the troops too. I was one for 9 years. I just don’t support this horrible abortion of a war. I’d love to see how you and the other flag wavers feel if they bring back the draft. Will you be as supportive when your kids are sent to Iraq, or Iran or wherever else this thing bleeds over to in the next few years.
    Far-fetched? maybe…..maybe not.


  25. on 17 Dec 2007 at 11:03 pm amiss1994

    Curt,

    As someone who has family serving in Iraq; I just wanted to take this opportunity to say THANK-YOU. Thank you for not only extending your
    sincere and genuine appreciation to Sergeant Steeley that day, but for writing this particular post. Its unfortunate that sometimes people forget
    the sacrifice our family/soliders make to protect this great country, and all the freedom/liberties that we as individuals have. It saddens me that our media only seems to focus on the negative aspect of war. What about reporting some of the positive influences that our American Soliders have had on the Iraq people ? Unfortunately, its all about the almighty dollar what sells and generates higher ratings. What’s not reported or generated to the American people is reporting all the wonderful and influential things that our soliders have been a part of; rebuilding schools, hospitals, education, or simply playing or tossing around a ball to some Iraq children. I’ve personally asked some my family members whether they agree or believe in this particular war. Their responses certainly have surprised/bewildered me. They don’t feel its their right to question their commander in chief. They will continue to go where told or asked, and continue to fight for a country they love and respect. There is that underlying and unspoken honor, pride and respect for what this great country stands for and the ultimate sacrifice they are willing to give to prove that their lives. How hard truly would it be for us as citizens to prove our support, respect and appreciation for the service they give ? Its the simple gestures like wearing red or sending a card/package that mean the most. I’ve been a Red Sox fan for 31 years now. Was 5 years old first time my father brought me to Fenway Park. I’ve seen alot of different type of people or personalities that have come and gone from that organization. The day you signed with the Red Sox was a great day
    not only for the organizations but for members of Red Sox Nation. We clearly not only got one of the most talented and hardworking pitchers of all time, but a sincere and loyal indivdual with true heart and character.
    Christmas is a time when we surround ourselves with the people we love and care about. When we appreciate all the blessings that have been bestoyed among us. How nice would it be this Christmas for people to take a moment and send a card to one of our recovering soliders. Can you imagine what it would mean to them & their families that we consider them a blessing.
    A Recovering American Solider- c/o Walter Reed Army Medical Ctr.
    6900 Georgia Avenue, NW. Washington, DC 20307-5001.Thank you again Curt for writing this and reminding people how appreciative we as americans should be and how easy it can be to show that appreciation and support. It means more then you can personally know.


  26. on 17 Dec 2007 at 11:13 pm priscillapitman08

    Thank you for posting this. The President of the company where I work posted this about a month ago, and since then we all have been wearing red on Fridays, which is over 100 of red shirts. Even this little amount does help. I have a lot of military among my family and friends, they all appreciate this.


  27. on 17 Dec 2007 at 11:58 pm Sparhawk

    Curt -

    As a former soldier in the US Army I understand and greatly respect what our soldiers do overseas. My neighbors husband just redeployed to Iraq right before his second child was born. She now is staying in the house with her sister taking care of two kids and is everyday awaiting the return of her hero and children’s father.

    This war has divided America in many ways, but to the majority everyone supports the troops, many just don’t support the war. Either way people feel about the war I think Red Shirt Friday is a great way to unite as a nation and to support what these truly brave Americans do for us and our freedoms on a daily basis. I hope everyone that reads your blog, fan or critics will take part in this endeavor and support the soldiers of the US military. I know I will.

    Especially around the holidays, lets make sure those wives and children, like my neighbor here in Maine see us doing our part to show support and appreciation for their loved ones doing their job overseas or here in country. Lets even take it one step further and try to help those families with what they may need over the holidays. Maybe its to talk, maybe its some money, maybe just a helping hand. Try shoveling their driveway, asking if they need anything, bring them a thank you card. Let them know that while they may go without their loved one this holiday, we appreciate the rights we have because of what their soldier is doing for us. Just do a good deed for that soldier in your community when you wear that Red Shirt on Friday and remind yourself what a great country we live in because of those brave men & women.


  28. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:29 am jdnewsie

    Curt,

    Thanks for telling this story.

    JD


  29. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:31 am dasfunk

    ::sigh::

    Not to be a wet blanket, but this is one of many internet-promoted “Red Fridays” campaigns that have been around for several years. Red Fridays have been encouraged to protest high gas prices, support Canadian troops stationed in Afghanistan, and any number of other causes.

    What’s interesting about this particular email that you’re promoting, Curt, is that it seems to be a combination of two well-established Internet mass-mailing campaigns - one promoting Red Fridays as a “Silent Majority” message of support for US troops, and a formerly unrelated “awareness” campaign promoting a gallant soldier’s flight home with the body of a fallen comrade. As these messages have spread over the years, the accompanying soldier’s name, rank and service body have changed - kind of like the old children’s game of “Telephone”.

    Like most internet campaigns, both of these contain bits of truth, and lots of fabrication. Think about the idea of wearing “red” on a particular day of the week, and you’ll realize that many people wear red on Fridays (and every other day, for that matter). It wouldn’t really be much of an effective campaign to encourage people to do something that millions of people would normally do anyway - for reasons like, uh, I don’t know, red is the only clean shirt they have left in the closet? If a campaign really meant to send a message, it would have to encourage people to do something that they wouldn’t ordinarily do anyway - so the action would stand out, and be unequivocal. Wearing red on a particular day of the week isn’t an effective statement.

    Curt - you’re going to get lots of these emotional, and sometimes gut-wrenching emails. If you’re going to promote and publish them, then the responsibility is incumbent upon you to check them out, first. You have too powerful of a soapbox to be one of the naive internet users who forward these things to “everyone you know”. I’d recommend spending some time with highly reputable and trusted urban legend sites like urbanlegends.about.com and snopes.com, where some pretty gallant researchers spend a lot of time hunting down the origins of the many internet mass-forwards, and attempting to verify the veracity thereof.

    In particular, I draw your attention to the snopes.com discussion of the “Howard Johnson” soldier story and the “Red Friday” story. I think you’ll find their coverage of these two campaigns interesting and informative.

    I encourage all of you who like to take up the challenge of “Forwarding This To Everyone You Know!!!!” to spend some time at those types of sites, familiarizing yourselves with how to recognize and put a stop to the bogus stories that swamp all of our email.

    Thanks for taking the time.

    das funk


  30. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:45 am mclelliott

    Curt -

    That must have been a moving experience.

    That being said, I’m not sure what you mean by the “silent majority” who support our troops. It sounds a lot like the argument often used to imply that those of us opposed to this war do so out of malice towards our men and women in uniform. The vast majority of Americans oppose this war, and want our troops home as soon as possible. We want them home because we love them as family and friends, and because our leaders led us into this conflict without being honest and truthful.

    I have never seen the casket of a fallen soldier like you have, so I can’t speak from experience. But if I did, I’ll bet the first thing I would feel would be sadness, not pride. I would wish more than anything that this soldier did not have to give his or her life for this war.


  31. on 18 Dec 2007 at 1:38 am skinnyman2007

    Hi Curt I work at Parris Island and I will pass that word along to wear red on Fridays to support all the Military and all the recruits that train at Parris Island. I tell the drill instructers thank you for serving our country. Curt could you send me an email to me and I will forward that to my boss on Parris Island to wear red on Fridays. My email address is riley101hot2000@yahoo.com Curt I wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!. A former coach that coached my special olympics team he is in Iraq and I keep him is my prayers. Curt you should come to Beaufort SC to Parris Island and thank the Marines for serving our country. That would be cool if you did that.


  32. on 18 Dec 2007 at 1:50 am ctmcs

    This is a great idea but then any way to show our support for the troops is a great idea.

    I will always be amazed at how a majority of our society loves, respects and honors our service men and women but they never get all the press and it is the minority that gets all the attention. I know that the service men and women do not seek out the thanks and that they are not serving for any other reason than love and pride for our great nation but they certainly deserve and appreciate any heart felt thank you or word of encouragement.

    Curt, thank you for allowing us to use your blog as another avenue to say thanks to the service men and women for all they do for us and for the daily sacrifices they make.


  33. on 18 Dec 2007 at 6:08 am winrob

    That so so powerful. I am not for the war but I am very thankful for the TROOPS. I too will be wearing RED for out SUPPORT. Thanks for the down to earth post. It sort of ground you.
    Happy Holidays to you


  34. on 18 Dec 2007 at 7:05 am suesox

    Have press releases been sent out to newspapers? This is the first I’ve heard of the “Red Shirt” movement. I’ll join in; I think it’s a good idea. It’s one both Republicans and Democrats can support.


  35. on 18 Dec 2007 at 7:47 am sandmanq8

    Curt, Just read your comments and as a Veteran(retired from over 20 years actuve duty) I really appreciate what you say and do to support these young men and women in the Uniform of our Country. I will do my best to get the word out to friends and family about the Red Shirt Fridays. They are the ones who need to know that Americans Do support them, we all go about our Normal day concerned not with what is going on in this world, but with only our personal daily lives. My wife is currently serving in Iraq, she is a LTC with a transportation unit, my son is preparing to deploy the first of the year with a civil affairs unit. So you know that I most definatley support them… Thanks again for all you do,
    God Bless, Sandmanq8


  36. on 18 Dec 2007 at 7:58 am ericbainbridge

    Curt,

    As someone who has served in the middle east on multiple occassions, I would like to say, “Thank You” for recognizing those of us in uniform. Once I returned from Afghanistan, I was medically discharged from the service. (as a side note, it was due to frostbite, but I’m OK). If you get the opportunity and I know you are very limited, but a line from you to a friend of mine who was wounded by a roadside bomb in Iraq would really boost his spirits. His name is Staff Sergeant Dan Pena and we served together in Alaska (near and dear to you, too). He lost the fibula in his right leg and his right arm was nearly severed at the bicep. Through the miracles of God Almighty and our medical team in Walter Reed, he has been able to keep his arm. He also has a young daughter back home in Texas. Please drop me a line at ericbainbridge@yahoo.com if you would like his contact information. Thanks again for what you do. Oh, and we know that the majority of the people in the country are supportive of us; just not the war.

    Thank You,

    SSgt (Ret.) Eric Bainbridge
    USAF


  37. on 18 Dec 2007 at 8:39 am rlgdguy

    God bless the USA!


  38. on 18 Dec 2007 at 8:53 am opinionatedcatch13

    Curt I know exactly how you feel. There are many soldiers in and around my town. Right where Jim Rowe Lives in Newmarket. That is a sad but very important story. People need to stop and think about everyone else that is over seas and their family.
    Unlike people like Mark Cuban making movies against our soldiers, we the people of the United States know what it is like to struggle. We have gotten through tragedies before and now the USAF has asked us to wear red. We should be Wearing as much Red as humanly possible. Thank you for the story


  39. on 18 Dec 2007 at 9:26 am petey38

    I am a Canadian who has a brother in the armed forces. Like you, I have always believed in supporting those brave men and women who are trying to make our world a better place.

    Canadians have been wearing red on Fridays in support of our troops for the past few years. I am a middle school Vice Principal and my students know why I wear red every Friday.


  40. on 18 Dec 2007 at 10:21 am toofarawayfromboston

    Everyone should be patriotic. No one should be nationalistic.


  41. on 18 Dec 2007 at 10:30 am the cuban buddhist

    Curt,
    I would like to thank you for posting this. Whether it is a true story or just one of those messages that takes on a life of it’s own is not important. It is the message contained in it.

    I do not want to get in an argument of who is more grateful or patriotic, but I will explain my view on it.

    I come from a family of immigrants, fleeing an oppressive dictatorship. I can never repay the freedoms and opportunities we were granted. But every single little thing I can do, I have dome, and will continue to do.

    Thank you for posting it.


  42. on 18 Dec 2007 at 10:38 am mpsoxg

    I would used to work on a Marine base and we all would wear red on Fridays to support our troops! I left that job 7 months ago and i still wear red ever friday to show the men that our country supports them and want them all to come home! I have many friends and i’ve had many close ones in the war and it’s great to see someone that i adore watching play baseball bring up this up!!! Curt you rock!!!


  43. on 18 Dec 2007 at 11:26 am mannyramirez1

    Hey Curt,
    Very touching story. This is the first I’ve heard of it (always late to the party)
    I live in a huge military area (VA Bch, VA) so I will be sure to pass this on.
    Peace


  44. on 18 Dec 2007 at 11:33 am tboston

    I see that Brian Roberts has admitted to steroid use. As yet I haven’t seen a single person named in Mitchell’s report that has said the charge is false and has come out in public to do so. What say you? Sounds like this will have a snowball effect.

    I say that regardless of what you may think of Jose Canseco or his book, he hasn’t been proven wrong yet when it comes to the names he used and the names he’s talked about. It would be nice to see someone caught that was not actually guilty, but I am not sure that’s going to happen.


  45. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:00 pm soxfanpj

    Curt,
    This story truly brought tears to my eyes. That said, I think you’re being extremely unfair in your comments that the media does not represent Americans’ support for the troops. As one who works in the media, I completely disagree - if anything, people in the press understand freedom better than many other Americans and appreciate the men and women in uniform who defend that freedom. And for those who don’t appreciate it, all it takes is an assignment abroad to see the lack of a free press in other countries.

    That said, supporting the troops does not mean supporting the war in Iraq. The media may well be representing the many people who are against the war. Bringing our men and women home as soon as possible can be viewed as showing them support, too. Especially the reservists who’ve left higher-paying jobs as they’ve been activated in the military and their families are feeling the pinch.

    Wearing red might help boost morale a little, but what would really help is to make sure that ALL our veterans receive the best care and utmost support financially and emotionally and physically when they return.


  46. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:05 pm beenthereb4

    God loves the American troops hunkered down against a barricade praying to Him as well as the innocent Iraqi parents shielding their kids from sharpnels from the barrage of shots from these very troops. GOD has had enough of the bloodshed.

    War is necessary….sometimes.

    This war has worn its welcome. There are no winners here.

    Bring the troops home. Period.

    Steel-town.


  47. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:31 pm fenwayrocks

    Personally, I don’t think it matters that this “campaign” has been around before or was used for other things. The story may not be real, but in reality, sadly those things happen every day. The sentiment is still the same. I would go so far as to say wear red, white or blue on Fridays. Some people don’t wear red or have anything red and any of these colors help represent our flag and our nation. Anything we can do to show our support to the wonderful people who proudly defend us and our country is a good thing.

    Curt - I don’t necessarily agree with all of your politics, but I respect your patriotism.


  48. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:36 pm 99dawg99

    curt already said he doesnt care where it started, he likes the format it’s in now. and whats that crap about “having too big of a soapbox”…… this is a personal blog to express freely ones own ideas and thoughts. i dont think he has a responsibility to reserch everything he discusses. i dont rely on blog sites for factual content. as he’s surfing im sure he sees things that are interesting and he posts them and gives his take on them so we as fans and readers can discuss them. its not like he’s starting a cult or anything. show some respect for the troops fighting overseas. and just like everyone else, if you dont like the content of Curt’s blog then dont read it!!! you dont see me going to any a-rod or jeter sights because i dont care what they have to say. but at the same time i dont discourage anyone else from going to them. free exchange of thought and idea’s is one of the few true freedoms we have left, dont discourage it by being a pompous egotistical ass. Curt, say what you feel and the truth will shine through!!!


  49. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:37 pm thinkingfan

    I am very curious about dasfunk’s (29) comments. I read this before the opening paragraph and YouTube video were added and really thought it had happened to Curt.


  50. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:40 pm Smokin Joe

    War is hell.

    And the declaration of War must be used as a last resort - no exceptions.

    I only have the utmost respect for our (past and present) armed forces, and only become upset when I see how they are abused, their care decreased, and their overall respect and notoriety dragged through the mud on so many occasions.

    Hopefully I’m just cynical, because these men and women are doing what so many of us would never dream of doing.

    But everyone has to remember, in the end, there are no true ‘good stories’ from war - and any soldier will tell you there is nothing glamorous, or a ‘bright side’ to battle, it is grueling, tiring and thankless.

    So, to at least derail one tradition - thank you armed forces, and not only to our men and women, but all Services that exist around the world to offer protection to their own, and carry on the greatest tradition of mankind.


  51. on 18 Dec 2007 at 12:45 pm Smokin Joe

    And I hate to double post - but the Canseco post kinda brought this up in my mind:

    I both loathe Jose and admire him at the same time - I admire that he has stepped up and began this movement of uncovering the truth throughout the Major Leagues, the only reason he knows of this is from his own greed and selfish behavior.

    I mean, everything HE’s ever done was unnatural, cheated and a false representation of what he is actually capable of. Heck, the book was probably more for money than actual sleuthing.

    I just hope history gives Canseco his true form - the perfect embodiment of the ’steroid/hgh era juiced player’ - Only thinking of themself, and not really worrying about who he has to walk over to make himself a dollar. And I do NOT mean to encapsulate the entire league, there are clean ethical players, however, there are also the ‘cheats.’

    And man, Jose is a perfect symbol of that.


  52. on 18 Dec 2007 at 1:25 pm ctsoxfan

    “As with other schemes intended to create a demonstration of solidarity or support for a particular group through some type of visual display, there is no truth or falsity to be uncovered here. If people participate in the suggested activity, it’s real–demonstrations need not be ‘officially’ organized or sanctioned to be symbolic and meaningful.”

    Put another way, if an entity as visible as the Red Sox chose to have their players wear those otherwise god-awful tomato-top uniforms on Fridays, and stated the reason they were doing so, it becomes meaningful, regardless of whether or not everyone flocks to participate.

    I’m all for the troops, Curt, and couldn’t be more against this war. Here’s hoping for the one thing we’re likely to agree on: that we can celebrate alongside the troops, HERE AT HOME, where they BELONG, someday very very soon.


  53. on 18 Dec 2007 at 1:39 pm beenthereb4

    Curt,

    Should we go after North Korea and Pakistan??

    They are out there displaying their nuclear might with no “interruptions” militarily from us. The word ‘diplomacy’ always becomes the noun of choice when it comes to these countries. Saudi Arabia partly financed 9/11. Yet, we’re so dependent on its resource…you know what that is.

    Heck, what ever happened to Afghanistan? Isn’t Osama living there?

    So….has this war come down to the dirty word: OIL ??

    Bring the troops home. Period.

    Steel-town.


  54. on 18 Dec 2007 at 2:25 pm andruww

    “Americans who support our troops used to be called the “silent majority.” We are no longer silent, and are voicing our love for God, country and home in record breaking numbers. We are not organized, boisterous or overbearing.”

    Frankly Curt, I find this rather offensive.

    Who are you saying doesn’t support the troops? Me, because I don’t support “preemptive” wars? Or God forbid I voice such an opinion?

    Again, who are all these troop-haters that evidently have been running rough-shod over the nation?


  55. on 18 Dec 2007 at 2:58 pm jonnyjbones

    I would wear red to support our troops but I would never, EVER want to be confused with a warmonger. That to me would be much worse(not to mention less ambiguous) then not wearing a certain color on a certain day.

    If you really want to help the troops and not just be part of some vague nationalistic attempt to support an aimless war donate today to http://AnySoldier.com/


  56. on 18 Dec 2007 at 3:27 pm Tom Field

    Thanks for sharing the story, Curt.

    My cousin just came home from Iraq, and he’s going to get an opportunity a lot of his comrades won’t get — to spend the holidays with his wife and kids. I gave him a lot of thought while he was away. Now I’ll turn my thoughts to those men and women who won’t be coming home for the holidays this year — or ever.

    And by the way, anyone who criticizes your writing should read this last post you wrote. It’s a wonderfully poignant story. Well said, Curt.

    Happy holidays to you, Shonda and the kids.

    best,

    Tom


  57. on 18 Dec 2007 at 4:18 pm greginpa

    Hi Curt. That was a very touching story. Brought a tear to my eye. I’m not sure though who you mean when you say the ‘majority’ of people support the troops. I am someone who thought this war was wrong from the very beginning and thinks this administration lied us into it, but I support our troops 100%. I have never ever, not once, heard of anyone, anywhere, who doesn’t support the troops and appreciate everything they do for us. Support of the troops has been and always be 100%. Support of this horrible war and the unnecessary loss of life, including Sgt. Steeley’s comrade is a different and completely seperate story.


  58. on 18 Dec 2007 at 4:19 pm jjmcs

    Curt,

    here’s an interview from March of this year that was on WBUR. It’s only about 4 minutes long.

    http://www.here-now.org/shows/2007/03/20070316_13.asp

    Caring about our bravest and finest is an American value, not limited to party affiliations, religious beliefs or moral leanings.

    I wish everyone a peaceful and safe Christmas season.


  59. on 18 Dec 2007 at 5:10 pm yuckthefankees

    Well if that doesn’t make you tear up then you don’t DESERVE the freedom we have as American’s.

    Thanks for sharing that Curt.

    Thank you Armed Forces.


  60. on 18 Dec 2007 at 5:34 pm bleedredj

    Hi Curt
    I havn’t been to your blog in a while, but glad that I did today as your topic really hit home. I have no astute political observations or great insight to the politics of war or will not dissect what you or your guests have shared. I’m not that worthy. I however can appreciate and FEEL when a group of people are speaking from the heart. I can however speak to what I personally know and share with you.

    I have a son in Iraq with FOB Loyalty that I love very much. Do I think that he is a hero, Sure, I may use the word hero in a different context than you do as I know from my son a little about what he is seeing and feeling based on our weekly telephone and e-mail contacts. He has a laymans street sense of politics and similar to his Dad doesn’t claim to know the answers to such complex issues. Should there be war? When should we come home? What is this war about? He joined the Army trying to find his way in this world and found himself in Iraq where he accepts his station and works, sweats, and lives in a reasonable amount of fear everyday as he sees things that a young man should never have to see. I also would add that he sees and hears from Iraqi people including children how they feel safe when they are with our soldiers. Some of the topics that we discuss are limited by what he can tell me but here are a few examples.

    He has called on at least two occasions in a very depressed state to share that a fellow soldier has taken his own life.

    On one occasion, his call was cut short as a morter struck his compound.

    On another occasion, he told of a contractor that lost his life due to an IED. or the story of an Iraqi baby with shrap metal in its belly.

    I try to keep these conversations from his Mom and have him share the good times which there are and here are some of those:

    like a buddy who stuck his tongue on a bug zapper for 20 bucks, or shared pictures of things like:

    Sitting on one of Saddam Hussein”s personal toilets.

    Pics of his buddies dressed up with wigs and letting loose, playing dominoes in the barrecks etc.

    Pics of plastic lawn chairs that were retro-fitted as wheel chairs and handed out to the Iraqi people harmed in the war. but am mostly drawn to pix of the Iraqi children that John sends, there dress (western influence), there comfort zone with our men.

    I was touched by a story about how children in Iraq are brainwashed against our soldiers i.e.:

    My son serves with the 82nd Airborne and children are told by insurgents that when they see a soldiier with an 82nd patch , the patch means that they killed a member of their family, and if they see what is a combat badge this means that they have killed their mother.

    As John sends more pics I realize that they are winning the confidence of the Iraqis and their children and from my son I get the true sense that our soldiers not based on political fodder, what you or I may beleive, the media (Yuk), but are moved to be heroes by what they see, accomplish and feel in their hearts every day.

    Thank-you for allowing me the space to vent and share the humble experiences that have touched our family through this war. As a family we are brought closer together and have compassion for all the other families that share our anxieties and pride for our sons, daughters and soldiers particularly during the holiday season. Wear your red clothing, this is great.
    I would also urge you spend time with your family, hug and hold your children, and thank god that you live in a country that you can do all of the above in safety and solidarity. God bless all during this holiday season!


  61. on 18 Dec 2007 at 5:57 pm justagirlinboston

    Another great way to show support, is to send a soldier a holiday card. I sent one of mine to the following address:

    We Support You During Your Recovery!
    c/o American Red Cross
    PO Box 419
    Savage, MD 20763-0419

    This is the LEGITIMATE way to send a card to a recovering American soldier, as opposed to the Walter Reed Hospital address that has been floating around.

    While I don’t have enough red clothing to be able to wear red EVERY Friday, I show my support in other ways, most especially for me - in working side by side with Air Force members every day.


  62. on 18 Dec 2007 at 6:03 pm ted5

    Great idea, Curt!
    Thanks for passing it along!!!!
    Ted


  63. on 18 Dec 2007 at 6:25 pm gameboylosangeles

    I was not familiar with the Red Shirt concept, and think it’s a great idea.

    Question is, can there be a way to wear something that states support for our troops yet not supporting the war?

    One does not have to support the war in order to support the brave, selfless men and women who fight on our behalf, protect us, and defend our freedom. Often the two are confused, or one is assumed as the other. That’s a shame.

    And, I, too, am a sucker for those kinds of videos.


  64. on 18 Dec 2007 at 6:40 pm Elvis Elvisberg

    I just read the first ten or 20 comments in this thread. Mine was the only negative one.

    One of my favorite things about the Internet is the ability to engage in back-and-forth with people. But when you’re the only one snarking, it’s just inappropriate and rude.

    Not that anyone cares what I think about anything, but I’m sorry for my skeptical post above.

    I’d be pleased to argue about it a bit in the proper format, but there’s certainly nothing wrong with gestures of support for things we all value.


  65. on 18 Dec 2007 at 9:19 pm kbksoxfan

    I want to thank you for putting this out. Having many family members past and present in Army and Marines, it’s great for them to be recognized. It’s something I will do and I encourage many of my friends to do the same. It’s great that someone like you takes the time to care about other things other than baseball!
    Thank you,
    Jen


  66. on 18 Dec 2007 at 9:31 pm davidkay3

    I’ll be wearing mine…while driving my huge 14 mpg hummer that requires tons of natural gas to drive! thanks Marines!


  67. on 18 Dec 2007 at 9:41 pm mogorman

    Dear Curt, I love that you support our troops and you are so right in that the support is not covered nearly enough. There are an incredible amount of people, behind our troops, that perform incredible deeds of unselfishness each and every day. As a proud Army Mom, I thank every one. The following letter was sent to me and I thought that maybe after reading whats in the hearts of Military families this holiday season, we can put aside politics even if it’s just for a few days…..

    Maureen O’Gorman
    Proud Mom of Spc. Daniel O’Gorman, Baghdad

    Christmas Letter To Iraq
    (Or anywhere else in the world our soldiers may be)

    Dear Husband; Dear Wife; Dear Light of my Life;
    Dear Mother; Dear Father; Dear Son;
    Dear Brother; Dear Sister; Dear Valued Friend;
    Dear Buddy; Dear Soul Mate; Dear One;

    Tonight my heart and mind are on you,
    As I gaze at our tree Christmas Eve,
    The angel on top is smiling down,
    And the lights are lovely to see.

    I am filled with thoughts of you tonight,
    I hope you’re not all alone,
    It’s not right for one to spend Christmas,
    Alone far away from home.

    Christmas candles are on the mantle,
    A scent of pine is in the air,
    I’ve spread greenery throughout the house,
    It looks like Christmas everywhere.

    There’s foil-wrapped mints in the candy dish,
    On the front door, there’s a wreath with a bow,
    And hanging near by on a ribbon,
    Is a sprig of Mistletoe.

    The outside lights are a real delight
    It seems there’s more around town this year,
    I’ve only put one in our window,
    And it’s there just for you, my dear.

    The turkey’s defrosting now in the fridge,
    It will be ready to cook Christmas Day,
    Side-dishes are mixed; the Jell-O is fixed,
    And the pumpkin pies are made.

    Extra leaves have been placed in the table,
    The usual crowd, of course, will be here,
    You know it won’t be the same without you,
    Oh my, how we’ll miss you, my dear.

    They say you’ll have a fine Christmas dinner,
    That the army will do it up right,
    I hope it is hot and you’ll eat a lot,
    And you’ll go to bed full Christmas night.

    I can’t tell you how much you’ll be missed,
    Although I miss you every day,
    But Christmas time is a special time,
    And you’re so terribly far away.

    I started this letter to cheer you,
    But now I fear I’ve made you feel bad,
    I’m sorry; I shouldn’t have done that,
    Please, honey, try not to be sad.

    Remember our Christmases of the past,
    Then think of the ones yet to be,
    We’ll spend this year in each other’s hearts,
    But next year you’ll be here with me.

    I pray each day to the Lord above,
    To protect you and keep you from harm,
    May you be surrounded by angels,
    And be safe and secure in their arms.

    None of us ever thought one day
    We’d be at war in a foreign land,
    They said it would protect us at home,
    Isn’t it strange? I don’t understand.

    I do need to tell you, honey,
    How very proud I am of you,
    And though it may sound trite,
    I need to thank you, too.

    I know, my dear, you’ve learned how to shoot,
    But before that, you learned how to love,
    So, when you can, aim with your heart
    And trust God’s guidance above.

    Now … if you are out on the road,
    Or dug into a ditch, with no light,
    Look up high; see that star in the sky,
    It’s the same star I’m seeing tonight.

    Years ago, a star exactly like that,
    Beamed down on the night Christ was born,
    It gave men hope then; it still does today,
    Merry Christmas, my darling, from home.

    Written by © Ginny (Virginia) Ellis


  68. on 18 Dec 2007 at 9:51 pm soxarmy

    Curt thank you so much for doing what you do, and I’m not referring to pitching…I am referring to being a model Christian and American. I am glad to know that there are others out there that love being American. Thank you. God Bless.


  69. on 18 Dec 2007 at 11:01 pm warbler44

    Curt, your son going to serve? Send your kid to wars you say you support.


  70. on 18 Dec 2007 at 11:27 pm depsean

    hooyah


  71. on 19 Dec 2007 at 12:48 am b52murph

    Curt - Thank YOU for appreciating those of us serving in the Military; I’ve not deployed to the sandbox yet, but have volunteered to deploy previously, and honor colleagues every day who have it far rougher than those of us stationed in CONUS.


  72. on 19 Dec 2007 at 2:08 am youtalkfunny

    But I already have the yellow ribbon on my car. Haven’t I already made enough empty gestures?


  73. on 19 Dec 2007 at 2:08 am bigtlaw

    Curt……for god sakes, who doesn’t support the troups?


  74. on 19 Dec 2007 at 3:32 am byzantinelight

    Curt, I hadn’t watched baseball very much that is, until you came to Boston. You have made the game exciting and turned me into a rabid Red Sox fan. But your pitching is only half the story. Your high principals and moral leadership have brought a new light to all of New England. This posting only serves to prove my point.

    Thanks Curt! And I’ll be in red every Friday.


  75. on 19 Dec 2007 at 5:27 am daddyrex722

    Hi Curt, I’m a 1st time poster so I hope I’m doing this right. Just a question, when the strike of 1994 happened MLB encouraged all the clubs to “play nice” to the fans by letting (making) the players get close to fans for autographs, pictures & whatever. Do you see MLB “encouraging” players to do this again regarding the steroid situation? Thanks & Happy Holidays to You & everyone else out there in RSN. Bob


  76. on 19 Dec 2007 at 8:49 am bjonesnboston

    elvis,
    nice follow up comment. I think your recogintion of respect deserves applaud. not many others would do so.


  77. on 19 Dec 2007 at 11:36 am hulind

    Curt,
    Everything you do is genuine, real, and from the heart. We are lucky to have you as a lifetime member of RSN. Happy Holiday’s to you and yor family.


  78. on 19 Dec 2007 at 12:02 pm mattsmithsox4life

    Curt,
    I will proudly wear Red EVERY Friday until the troops come home. I have three very close friends of mine who are currently overseas. I pray for them each and every day that they will return home safely to their anxiously awaiting families. I was very moved by your putting this on your site. Thank you for taking the time to recognize things like this.
    We are all very busy this time of year with family and friends and to take a moment to look back and realize just how much the troops have done for us over the years means a lot!
    Have a safe and happy holiday, and see you in the Spring.

    Regards,
    Matt Smith


  79. on 19 Dec 2007 at 12:16 pm yakdude01

    Hey Curt,

    Great entry today!

    Another thing I can do to help those serving recognize that I support them. I will make it a part of my routine each Friday.

    And like other people here, seeing that video just makes you want to cry, stand up and salute the brave men and women who serve in the military worldwide. Here is hoping that all of them come home soon, safe, to be with their friends and family!

    See you around the ballparks in 2008! I’m hoping to take in a few Red Sox games in a few places. Seattle, Houston, Arlington, TX, etc.

    Hope you have a great holiday with your family.

    Kevin


  80. on 19 Dec 2007 at 12:22 pm navywife25

    Curt,

    As a wife a man in the military I want to say thank you for being so insightful when it comes to the struggles that military men and women.

    Red Fridays are something that every Navy Wife that i know lives by! In fact I’d say about 1/2 of all the Wives that their husbands are on the ship with mine… we wear Red Sox Jerseys that are customized with our Husbands names on the back! (I might have had a LITTLE something to do with that… Hmmmm lol)

    The video that you posted… brought me to tears immediately because on more than one occasion I have picked my husband up at the airport when he was in uniform and as soon as he walked off the plane there were many people cheering, clapping, and thanking him for being in the military and suprisingly thanking me for being his number one supporter.

    I think some of the people that commented in this blog saying that Red Fridays are just a scam should be ashamed of themselves. Red Fridays have been a staple of any military wife’s wardrobe since my husband was in the military.

    On behalf of my husband, his shipmates, myself and all of the other military wives out there knowing that their husband is fighting for every one elses freedom… we thank you!!!!!!!

    It’s about time someone recognize these guys for what they are. Heroes!!

    Kristina Twitchell…
    PROUD NAVY WIFE!!!!


  81. on 19 Dec 2007 at 12:25 pm yanksrdaclassofbball

    Curt,

    the video was very cool. I was at a Padres game in 02 and there were a whole section of Marines there. After the game when the Marines were filing out of the stadium towards the parking lot a very similar scene unfolded as everyone kinda parted ways for them and applauded wildly. Brought tears to my eyes and made me respect even more what these men and women do. Regardless of whether someone agrees with the war or not, frustration should not be taken out on the soldiers, they are merely doing their jobs as instructed. Think of how dangerous it is for them every second of their day, plus being away from their loved ones. I am a Law Enforcement officer and I understand there’s danger when going to work, but I cant even compare that to these amazing individuals. While I don’t agree with you too often when it comes to baseball, I appreciate your message here. Besides, as fanatical as I am about my Yankees, it makes a person realize that there are many things way more important than the Red Sox and Yankees.


  82. on 19 Dec 2007 at 1:38 pm greydog24

    Excellent job, as usual Curt.

    It’s too bad that some posters (e.g. - hawk40, das funk) totally missed the point that you tried to make here. Whether or not ‘John Q. Public’ supports the war or not is IRRELEVANT. So is someone trying to educate you, Curt Schilling, as to the validity of an e-mail story by checking with snopes.com… please. Yes, I’m from a military family. BTW - if the draft is reinstituted, whether or not I want to have my family members drafted at that point is irrelevant. Perhaps some of us still feel one has an obligation to serve…and just might want to do so…?

    The point here is that Curt proposes an idea - it being simply that American citizens might WANT to show their own support of our servicemen and women by wearing a red shirt on Friday. Period. A simple idea that does no one any harm, doesn’t ‘offend’, and seems like it would be well received by the majority.

    One of the beautiful things with the U.S. is that we are free to choose to do this…or not. I respect the fact that Curt has chosen to present this idea as a positive thing that we can all do. Where the idea comes from doesn’t matter as much as the thought of passing it along does…


  83. on 19 Dec 2007 at 1:58 pm beantownkid59

    Curt, the only way to support the troops is to bring them home, so we can get our military ready for any fallout from the world’s hatred towards America. It’s fine you support McCain, but anyone who would be persuaded to vote for the leader of our country based on who their favorite ballplayer endorses, shouldn’t be eligible to vote in the first place. It was the rednecks in the bible belt who voted your boy George in, so maybe you should run your ads down south, You see up here in MA, people are intelligent enough to realize Military is not at the forefront of this election… our horrible image in the world, and failing economy are. Support the troops, and bring them home. Your in pretty good shape anyways for your age, why didn’t you grab a pen and sign up for this “war” back in 01?

    Win another pennant Curt. Do it for Jesus!!!!!!!


  84. on 19 Dec 2007 at 2:16 pm bostonbassplayer38

    hey thats just amazing i think that most people dont give enough respect to all the troops that give their lives each day.
    so we wear red shirts on fridays ur the man
    thanks curt


  85. on 19 Dec 2007 at 2:32 pm soxfan33

    http://redshirtfriday.us/images/Arlington%20Cemetary%20Christmas.jpg

    © Mike Lynaugh
    Arlington at Christmas

    Readers may be interested to know that these wreaths — some 5,000 — are donated by the Worcester Wreath Co. of Harrington, Maine. The owner, Merrill Worcester, not only provides the wreaths, but covers the trucking expense as well. He’s done this since 1992. A wonderful guy. Also, most years, groups of Maine school kids combine an educational trip to DC with this event to help out. Making this even more remarkable is the fact that Harrington is in one the poorest parts of the state.


  86. on 19 Dec 2007 at 6:34 pm airforcesoftballplayer

    Curt,

    My name is Technical Sergeant Gagnon and I have been in the Air Force for over 15 years now. I have read all the responses to Red Shirt Fridays and most of them made me feel good and then there were the ones that people just dont get it!!! I wish these people could just spend a week in Iraq, Afganistan, etc…with us. I am proud to serve my country and every four years I have a choice to stay in or get out of the Military. It is an honor to do what we do and I am thrilled to hear that you suggested this idea to wear Red on Fridays. I will tell you that even though I have to wear camo on Fridays I will start to wear a Red shirt (Red Sox of course) under my black t-shirt. I will definately pass this on to my fellow Airmen in the US Air Force and trust me it will spread like wild fire.

    Support!!

    This is a strong word for us!! When we are deployed downrange or at home station it is the best thing in the world to hear that professional atheletes like yourself try to make a difference and support us in any way you can. I always think back to when Pat Tillman died…I have the upmost respect for that man God rest his soul. He dropped everything he had accomplished as a successful football player and followed his heart. He believed that it was his duty as an American to serve his country.

    Recently we had an Airman that was stationed with me at RAF Lakenheath, England die from an IED while deployed in Iraq. We held a memorial service here at RAF Lakenheath soon after this tragedy. I attended his service and so did 90% of the base. This hit home since a lot of people here either knew him personally or worked each and every day with him. He was in his early 20’s. He just started his life and it ended ever to soon. Being that I am 33 years old I have grown to respect a lot of people, but the most respect I have are the Military members that are willing to sacrifice their lives each and every day serving in the Armed Forces.

    One last thing…I have to really post this because it really gets to me when I am reminded of it. Early this past year the NFL decided to have a regular season game in London. It was decided that Miami and New York were going to be the teams. A lot of us dont get a chance to go to games because we are either deployed or stationed overseas. I decided to try to contact the NFL to see if they might be able to send a few of us to the game. I was not trying to get a free ride, I was just seeing if the NFL would like to support some of the troops. I send numerous e-mails and I did not hear a response except from a member of the NFL Players association. This person stated that she would forward this request on to the league office and if I did not hear anything in a couple of months to contact the league office after the Pro Bowl and see where we stood. I did not hear anything for a few months. I called the league office and I basically got nowhere. If I would have just received an e-mail or a call stating that it would not be possible I would have just said that at least I tried. I did not hear anything!! This really gets to me becasue when I watch NFL games on TV we always hear that the NFL supports us and what we do. If so why couldn’t they take the time to respond to a request whether they could support us or not. Like you stated in this post “You could not do what you do, if we did not do what we do”. This is the same for the NFL also. Once again I am not looking for sympathy and I was not looking for a free ride to a game. It just urked me that I did not receive any response after numerous tries contacting the league office.

    Curt once again…As a die hard fan of all of Boston’s professional teams I salute you and what you try to do for the Men and Women of the United States Armed Forces. Keep pressing and I guarantee I speak for all of us!!!

    TSgt Gagnon
    United States Air Force
    RAF Lakenheath, UK


  87. on 19 Dec 2007 at 7:55 pm jetster1973

    Curt

    I am an Air Force Member originally from MA, NH stationed in Texas, I would like to personally thank you from the bottom of my heart for your sincere gratitude to my other comrads in all Military Services. I obviously from New England, am a Die Hard Fan of all my Boston Teams and a really big fan of you and The Boston Red Sox. It is great to have an athlete that I really think highly of bring everybody together during this holiday season. I would like to wish You, Shonda and the kids a joyous Holiday Season.

    Best Wishes,

    SSgt John T. Jett
    Stationed at Randolph AFB, Texas.


  88. on 19 Dec 2007 at 9:24 pm jas62

    Red has always been my favorite color. I hate this war but could hardly finish reading this through the tears. I’m reminded of my Dad telling me about my Godfather in WWII. He was on an air craft carrier and they would launch flag drapped coffins into the ocean. I’m glad this soldier made it home.
    1.) The Worcester Wreath Company doesn’t get nearly the recognition it should. I’ve seen this on the news for the past 2 Holiday seasons and it makes me proud to be a native New Englander.
    2.) Message to Elvis. The only thing that reads loud and clear on your pitiful blog is 2 words: NO COMMENTS.


  89. on 19 Dec 2007 at 10:02 pm mhcranberry

    There are those of us who won’t wear red on Fridays.

    I support the troops. I love America. Deeply.

    But I think there are just better ways to support the troops than wearing a shirt. Much better ways.

    By volunteering and helping take care of their communities while they’re away.
    By helping teach their children.
    By helping their aging parents.
    By keeping their jobs for them, and supporting them during transitions in and out of civilian life.
    Do you see where I’m going with this?

    God bless all of you for the sentiments here–I agree with them–but the truth is, the real support that is needed might take a little more than that.

    Symbols like red shirts are nice, but to me, we should do something much more.

    Do don’t make any assumptions about people who don’t wear red on Fridays. We could be contributing every day, but don’t advertise.

    And one side note: I’m unclear on the silent majority bit too. I haven’t heard anything but intense public criticism for people who don’t support the troops, or even people just accused of not supporting the troops because they don’t support the war. I know, because I’m one of them. This is a majority that is very far from silent, I think.

    And a word–it hurt very deeply to have my support for the the troops challenged because I didn’t believe in the war. That kind of accusation shouldn’t be thrown around lightly.

    Thanks.


  90. on 19 Dec 2007 at 10:07 pm tigerfanforever

    Thanks for the heads up…I will do my part to pass this information on in Detroit.


  91. on 19 Dec 2007 at 10:11 pm warbler44

    red shirts? enlist tough guys ……..fight the wars you pretend to support….I think the clapping is because they don’t have to go themselves……and yes, i went.


  92. on 19 Dec 2007 at 10:25 pm oneopinion

    That video was moving, gave me one of those chills or however you describe it on the back of the head. Anyone else get those? Thanks for sharing.

    p.s. In this day and age, regardless of one’s stance on the war in Iraq, it does seem as though everyone supports the troops - and that is a good thing. As we all know, that wasn’t always the case.


  93. on 19 Dec 2007 at 10:28 pm oneopinion

    And oh yeah, almost forgot: The last soldier that turned around at the end of the video - looked like Tito. He must have turned around to check on you, Curt!


  94. on 19 Dec 2007 at 10:33 pm ps2dad

    Curt,
    while I am opposed to war, I am also aware of the impossible situation our country has been led into. The troops need and deserve much more support than they are getting presently. If such a war could have been avoided, it should have been. But the fact is, we are there, and our troops are not being properly outfitted, they have little or no aid from our “allies”, and even the Iraqis are not dooing much to help themselves. As a veteran, I fully support Red Shirt Friday, and my country. God bless you, Curt. And God bless the United States of America.


  95. on 19 Dec 2007 at 10:38 pm adk26

    Curt,

    I hung out with you a couple of time in Baltimore many years ago when you called everyone “Meat”.

    I really admire what you have done in your career, but more importantly, how you conduct yourself in your life.

    I am touched by the piece and, even though my colors are blue and white, I will wear red Friday’s and encourage those around me to do the same.


  96. on 19 Dec 2007 at 10:50 pm mykatieq

    Dear youtalkfunny,

    My sentiments exactly! When are we going to make some “real” sacrifices for our troops since we succumbed to scare tactics and allowed ourselves to get caught up in this unnecessary war? What happened to real Americans and real sacrifices like those of the WWII times?


  97. on 20 Dec 2007 at 12:36 am northlandsoxfan

    Hello Curt.

    I am a transplant from western mass. here in the Northland of Minnesota (Gods Country!). I come across emails such as these often since my younger brother is serving in Iraq right now. This is his second tour there as well as a tour in bosnia. I had personal reservations as to the wisdom of going to war there, but, since we are in it now, we must support our troops. I do not believe you can support them without giving support to the men who lead them. We can not support our troops when we do not tell our congessmen to give them all that they need! We are in it now. If we support them, then we support victory. We support their job at hand, their mission. We should give them the very best. I am not so young as to not know about the sacrifices my parents and grandparents made during ww2. That was what supporting your troops is really all about. If we are going to support out troops, lets put some substance behind our heartwarming talk. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. So is a country as a whole. We put our fathers, mothers, sons, daughters, brothers and sisters at greater risk when we flounder in our convictions to settle for nothing less than victory. I don’t mean to sound negative. May God bless our troops, be merciful to our enemies, and continue to be gracious to our country.


  98. on 20 Dec 2007 at 12:47 am leakypen

    As the father of two young men in the military(I was a peacenik during Vietnam era) I cannot say how proud I am of their service and their brethren. I, too, shall wear red on all Fridays as long as the Good Lord allows me to breathe and as long as we, as a nation have service personnel in harm’s way.

    Thank you Curt, for being the man you are and openly stating how all of us can be supportive without being political about it!

    Peace and Love to you all!


  99. on 20 Dec 2007 at 12:53 am polaris26

    ah not to rain on this great idea but here in canada we have had red friday for a few years. it’s still a great gesture. and oh yeah we love being your neighbour in fact darn proud.


  100. on 20 Dec 2007 at 6:59 am 1redsox

    Curt -

    Although myself and my family are Sox fanatics - to say the least - your words and “you being you” impress me to no end (and that feeling extends to your family). The most important thing that many of the population fail to believe is that we are ALL human beings. I do not care if you are the president of the US or a homeless person on the street. I care and respect each and every one of you. It is not who you are, the money the you make (or do not make) - - - it is what you do with your life to make a difference in this world. I live by the with my family every day.

    You make a difference. You would be my friend! I appreciate you - O.K. - for being a Red Sox - that should be mentioned!!!! - BUT, MOST IMPORTANTLY - FOR MAKING A DIFFERENCE.

    Happy Holidays to you and your family. Happy New Year 2008!

    AND GO SOX!

    Holly


  101. on 20 Dec 2007 at 7:56 am jae1217

    Curt, it is an honor to know that someone cares so much about his troops and other things going on around the world. you are truly a person who has a heart of gold and proudly displays what he stands for. I was in tears reading your posting here, and I am proud to say I am a red sox fan and a curt Schilling fan for life. Good luck next year, ill be watching….

    O yea, by the way, my red sweatshirt is already out. with a # 3 on the back!


  102. on 20 Dec 2007 at 7:57 am jae1217

    Sorry, # 38 on back….LOL


  103. on 20 Dec 2007 at 8:16 am eng2lt

    Glad you worked things out and are staying with the Sox…I think
    you and your wife are a class act…and showing your support for the troops is just another example. I served 6 years with the R.I.
    Air Guard as a firefighter, my Dad was a combat aircrewman in a
    Navy dive bomber in W.W.II, and my Grandfather was in the Marines and fought in 3 major battles in France in W.W.I.. God Bless our troops for all they do for our country and our way of life!


  104. on 20 Dec 2007 at 8:17 am ryatc

    Hi Curt,

    That YouTube video of the troops walking through the airport is great.

    I actually experienced the same EXACT thing at an airport. While waiting for my father outside the restroom I heard people start applauding and turned to see 3 soldiers in their BDUs walking up the hallway. People on both sides of the airport stopped what they were doing and applauded as they walked by. It was a moving experience that I will never forget and that continues to make me proud to be an American. Oh, and by the way, we had just arrived at the Ft. Myers airport to catch a couple spring training games in March of 2006!

    I’ll have my red on…


  105. on 20 Dec 2007 at 9:15 am nhchris

    As someone who wore a white arm band for 444 days during the Iran Hostage Crises, I say that wearing a red shirt on fridays is a great idea. Supporting the troops in war and peace should be a national priority, but special recognition during war seems appropriate. I thank God that our soldiers are over there so we can live in safety over here and pray for their safe return.


  106. on 20 Dec 2007 at 9:18 am quapa

    Curt: It is refreshing to see a major leaguer take a stand. It is my opinion that any player who has been found to having used steroids to further his career should be banned from the sport and his name and record accomplishments should be stricken from the record books. Such (steroid) cheating is a slap in the face to all those athletes who play by the rules with their God given abilities.


  107. on 20 Dec 2007 at 10:14 am 16maydaymalone

    Very well said! It’s also refreshing to hear that those, even though they may not support the war, are getting behind the troops. Would appreciate it if you wouldn’t make me cry again at work though, little embarrassing! Thanks for your comments.


  108. on 20 Dec 2007 at 11:00 am mvplooster

    Curt,
    I am a life life long Dodger’s fan but enjoy reading your opinions on baseball and life. I too enjoy the video and and who cares if it is a hoax, it gets the message across. I have been serving our country for 15 years and have deployed to Iraq with with no regrets. I am not a supporter of any war but believe that the safety our families and our country is more important. I have four chilldren and one beautiful granddaughter. I would rather bring the fight to the enemy than have them bring to our homes. I get paid to to do this and have no complaints. I want my family safe and sound and if that means that I must go war SO BE IT.

    Thanks for your support and good luck next season.


  109. on 20 Dec 2007 at 11:11 am dustbunny44

    Curt,
    Our great country is, as I think you say, the result of all the great people in it and the courage and sacrifice and hard work each of us (well, most of us and thankfully enough of us) do day-to-day to make it and keep it that way. Many of us serve selflessly, and some pay the ultimate price. They deserve all the honor and benefits we can give them. Thank you for highlighting that and continuing to honor those who deserve it and more.

    Given all that, in no way should we let those assholes off the hook who have lied to us and to congress and who put us into a position where those who serve are being killed for misrepresented reasons. Our citizenship and our duty to Seargent Steeley’s charge and all the others like him deserve no less than our full commitment to truth, honor, freedom, true democracy, and equal rights for everyone on the planet. We are better than this mess in Iraq, we are better than detainment without charge, better than torture, better than fabricated intelligence, better than letting OBL off the hook for years,better than quid pro quo. Goddamn it, this is America.


  110. on 20 Dec 2007 at 11:25 am dmfordj

    Curt,

    Yes, you are a sucker. And so am I. Touching ad.


  111. on 20 Dec 2007 at 11:41 am